I am getting ready to file for divorce from my wife, I live in Washington state. Last year she had me removed from our home under a domestic violence complaint. The complaint was dismissed for a lack of evidence, however the judge "ADVISED" me not to return to my home. I was told "If you seek self help and come before me again, I will not look on it favorably". My lawyer at the time told me that the judge was warning me not to go back to the house.
I moved to a new apartment and left my soon to be ex-wife with all the furniture except for the things in my home office. I realized that while I was out of the house all my jewelry including some my mother left me when she died is missing. I contacted my soon to be ex-wife and asked her to return it. She refused.
My question is can I get my jewelry returned in the division of property in the divorce? Is it a lost cause since I don't have receipts (I've had the jewelry quite a long time)? Can I get value for the jewelry. This is the only property I want out of the divorce.

