I am a parent of an 18 year old paying $400 per month to the other parent. We currently live in NJ. Our only child is going to college in NC where I had full custody from 6th to 8th grade. The father is moving to NV, I'm moving back to NC. I'd like for each of us to come up with a financial plan. At first the father was in favor of that but changed his mind after I went to court for a mediation appointment. Then he put $400 down on the tuition to the NC college. The father wants to continue to receive payments and I'm worried college will not be paid for since the father tried very hard to get the son to go to school in NV and I have to put motions in all the time to get things done, like his braces.

