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    Default I'm Having Contact with the Girl Who Has a Protective Order Against Me

    So, this girl has a protective order against me, i was ordered no contact for 30 days about a week ago. I havnt seen or talked to this girl in 2 months but just a few days after i recieved the order she contacted me. She said she missed me and we hung out. we have been together everyday for the past 6 days and i am wondering if i could get in trouble? i mean her dad isnt too fond of me what if he finds out and he calls the cops. I mean she initiated all the contact, asked me to hang out and everything. Shes over 18 so as long as she sticks up for me it should be fine right? obviously i have a wall up at this point and if i see and bad vibes ill back off. but i dont wanna ruin a chance with someone i have feelings for ya know. I know most of you are going to advise me to just stay away at least till the end of the 30 days, and i am considering that. but im still curious of how it could go down if some one informs the police??

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    Default Re: I'm Having Contact with the Girl Who Has a Protective Order Against Me

    if there is a no contact order, that means: no contact, period.

    you are obviously in violation of the order and subject to arrest and prosecution for violating the order, regardless what the girl says.

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    Yep, trouble for sure. It doesn't even matter if the girl initiates the contact or begs you to be around and puts it in writing and gets it notarized. The ONLY thing that can alter a court order is a COURT. Until she asks the court to recind the order, you are in danger of arrest. (And even her asking may not recind it, depending on the circumstances.)

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    Default Re: I'm Having Contact with the Girl Who Has a Protective Order Against Me

    we have been together everyday for the past 6 days and i am wondering if i could get in trouble?
    YES you can get in trouble. Like, arrested, fined, and thrown in jail.

    Don't just "consider" following the court order - FOLLOW THE COURT ORDER.

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    Default Re: I'm Having Contact with the Girl Who Has a Protective Order Against Me

    By the way, not just dad can turn you in.

    Anyone that knows... including HER.

    That's right... she doesn't have any restrictions. You could be walking down the street and she sees a cop and it's all over.

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    Def not worth going to jail. I'm actually scared now, im just gunna stay away untill the order is up. She is going to be mad, but I am not going to risk pissing somebody off and having them go to the police. Thank you for the advice. all I could hope for now is that nobody informs them that we have had contact up to this point.

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