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aaron
They seem to be confused in their terminology, with this reference to a "civil crime". The civil justice system is where you can file lawsuits to seek relief such as money damages. The criminal justice system is where criminal prosecutions occur.
I am not aware of any state which makes it unlawful per se to photograph or videotape anybody who is in a public place, regardless of age. (By "public" I am not including places where people have a reasonable expectation of privacy, such as in a public restroom.) I suppose it could rise to the level of harassment, depending upon the full facts and circumstances, and also depending upon state law. Also, although irrelevant to your circumstances, the fact that it is legal to take a picture of somebody does not necessarily mean the picture can be used commercially without their consent.
Would the people in the subdivision have any reason to know that the reference is to your husband, or to believe any such allegation by these people?
Why is your husband still going by this house? (You can carry out a lot of business in a neighborhood while avoiding a particular block of a particular street.)