This is really BS.. that family is messed up.. I don't want my son anywhere near them. I plan to call vital statistics today to ask if I'm on it before I order a copy.. and a lawyer.

What can I do with a lawyer before she comes and tries to get him? Can I get a court ordered DNA test if vital statistics does not come through without her there?

I'm trying my hardest.. This isn't the girl I feel in love with and started a family with.. I didn't expect that someone would try to push us apart and then try for my son.

If you were me.. what would you do to act as quickly as possible? what list should I be following as of where I stand right now?