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  1. #1
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    I hope I am in the correct spot. I live in Alabama, we were married 7 years, my husband was seeing someone else and got caught, and walked out on me the day I caught him. I have copies of emails from one to the other with detailed sex acts, along with days and times with them meeting. Our divorce was finalized in November, but have been waiting until the money from the QUATRO was over into my name to check on this. I had a nervouse breakdown ended up in the hospital and am still seeing several doctors for this. After all this time I just this month (3/2010) have started trying to work part time again. (dont know how that is going to work yet) I did not get any allamoney but he did give me a little money each month (last month it ended). I am behind in all my utilties, they are about to be cut off, I am about to loose my car. I had to live off credit cards that were in my name and now have over 10,000 deliquent cc debts. Also he and she married 2/14/2010. Is there anyway I can sue her? She has plenty of money, her husband died 2years ago and he was a very wealthy man and let it to her including an elaberate house which my ex now lives in with her.

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    I may be off base here (forgive me if I am) but WHY would you want to sue the woman (regardless of financial status) rather than go after your husband? I'm from up north, and if my old man cheated on me, it would be HIS happy b*tt in a sling, because HE is the one that I had the 'contract' with. I understand that it's wrong to cheat (whether you're the spouse or the 'other'), however, I'm not understanding how the fault lies with the one that was 'outside' the marriage, rather than the one that you married.

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    you cannot sue her.

    Your only legal action was against your husband... you did that through the divorce proceedings.

    There is no other case.

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    she knew he was married, she was in it as much as he, I have gotten as much as I
    can for later in life, I think she should have to sacrifice also since she was in it as much as him. She committed adultry the same as him since she was dating a married man.

    also maybe that is the problem you are from up north and may not believe in Gods law

    nothing to say now?

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    I believe that there is a relationship between a husband and a wife, that it should be held sacred. If he (or she) steps out of the marriage, THEY are the ones that betrayed the trust that was held. Living up north has nothing to do with whether or not I believe in God's law. Would you feel the same if the woman DIDN'T have money? What would you gain even IF you got a judgment in that case?

    I understand that you're angry, hurt and betrayed, but honestly, she wasn't the one standing there promising 'forever'. What he did to you, he will do to another, and in time her transgressions will come flooding back to her.

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    she knew he was married, she was in it as much as he, I have gotten as much as I
    can for later in life, I think she should have to sacrifice also since she was in it as much as him. She committed adultry the same as him since she was dating a married man.

    also maybe that is the problem you are from up north and may not believe in Gods law

    nothing to say now?
    I live in Georgia. I believe in God's law.

    You still cannot sue her for anything. Man's law... which is the only thing available to men to use in their dealings with one another... does not allow you to sue her.

    You did not have a legally binding agreement with her. You had one with your husband. You severed that agreement via the divorce proceedings.

    That is the end of the road.

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    Quote Quoting ALS
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    she knew he was married, she was in it as much as he, I have gotten as much as I
    can for later in life, I think she should have to sacrifice also since she was in it as much as him. She committed adultry the same as him since she was dating a married man.

    also maybe that is the problem you are from up north and may not believe in Gods law

    nothing to say now?

    The only person who owes you anything is the one who made the vows...and that matter is over and done with.

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    Quote Quoting ALS
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    she knew he was married, she was in it as much as he, I have gotten as much as I
    can for later in life, I think she should have to sacrifice also since she was in it as much as him. She committed adultry the same as him since she was dating a married man.

    also maybe that is the problem you are from up north and may not believe in Gods law

    nothing to say now?
    The court doesn't give a flying deep fried turd about "God's law".

    Alienation of affection is not a cause of action in your state. You have no case. Time to move on.

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    Even if you were able to sue the other woman, its going to bring more headache and heartache than this guy is worth.

    Look, he's a cheater. If he didn't have an affair with THIS woman, he might have had one with another. For all you know, maybe there were others, and this is the only one where you found out.

    Are you really prepared to pay thousands and thousands of dollars in attorney and court fees to listen to testimony about their affair? Is is really worth it?

    What are you going to get in return? Lets say the court grants you a judgement. You'd still have to collect it, and then you will have all those attorney and court fees to pay out.

    The best revenge is to walk away and succeed in life without the cheater.

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