So heres the story. My ex girlfriend decided she wanted some space. we went a few days without speaking then we had some contact which was mostly arguments. we dont need to go into specifics but she was accusing me of things that i didnt do, a lot of 'he said, she said' stuff. she said what she had to say and didnt want to her my excuses and basically said it was over and she didnt wanna talk anymore. I was a frustrated and stubborn that i didnt get a chance to get my point across and despite her ignoring me, i left her some texts and a few voicemails basically explaining my side of the story and yes i said things like i think she was stupid, and that i cant believe she was doing this to me and what not (normal break up stuff)... She ended up contacting the police that same day and i recieved a phone call from an officer advising that i dont speak to her anymore, I agreed. However I made another big mistake and contacted about 2 weeks later on facebook. I guess i was a little in denial, but i figured some time had passed and u know, maybe shes over it. I said something like "Hi, I dont know if your still mad or not, but if you ever want to talk I'm still here, you can call me". Bad move... she called the police again and there was a warrant issued for my arrest. Its safe to say that i realize its over and she REALLY wants nothing to do with me now. I havnt contacted her in about 3-4 weeks and frankly I'm over her and have no problem never speaking with her again. but now I have to go to court and I am a little worried about what the outcome may be. If I could get some advice on how this situation may turn out, it would help. I am not excusing my actions. Although I feel she was being a little too cautious with calling the police to beigin with and the severity of my actions wernt extreme, I suppose it was still technically harassment though. There is no excuse and I should have respected her decision from the get go but it is what it is, I made a mistake and i have to deal with it. Also I plan to move out of state in about a month, how will this affect my plans to leave?
In addition, since this is so recent, I just went through the processing of my arrest and I was told to write a statement about the situation. I can bring it to the police department whenever but I had never written a statement before. here is a sample of what i wrote, I will replace her name with '??????'. Can somebody advise me if this is the proper way to make a statment? I dont know whether I should be defending myself, apologizing, admitting my wrong doing, explaining how i feel, or what..or should i just not turn in a statement at all? so a little advice on this as well would be great.. thank you
statement:
On aproximatly feb 25th I received a phone call from the Police department, advising that i have no contact with '??????'. About a week prior '??????' decided she wanted space from our relationship. Toward the end of the week '?????' and I had some contact, mostly arguments involving a lot of 'he said she said' and accusations toward me. Without getting into specifics, '?????' said what she had to say and eventually decided she didnt want to hear my excuses and bascially told me "it's over". At this point I was frustrated, despite her ignoring me, I texted her and left her a few voicemails trying to explain my side of the story. Evidentally, '?????' was upset and lead to her contacting the police on Feb. 25th. I was asked to not contact '?????" anymore, and I agreed to do so. However, 1-2 weeks later I made a huge mistake. I contacted '?????' via a facebook application called formspring.me . It was wrong , but I guess I thought enough time had lapsed, and maybe shes over it. I cant remember specifially what I said but it was something to the extent of "Hi, I dont know if your still mad or not, but if you ever want to talk I'm still here, you can call me". I guess I was hoping we could patch up whatever problems we had and we could maybe remain friends. Aparently, I was wrong. She contacted the police a second time and it lead to a warrant for my arrest. I have not attempted or plan to contact '??????' since then. I understand that harassment is a serious crime and caution should always be taken. I respect '????'s' decision and dont want to escalate the situation any further.

