She's your ex. You already set the stage for a conversation with sexual ovetones by calling her a sexually-based slur. It's not a stretch that any reasonable person would have been put off by such a comment, or could have taken it as an implied threat (especially since your implication wasn't that just YOU would be involved, but a friend as well - which has serious overtones of "two against one"). Again, it'll be for a jury to decide. You can most certainly be charged and even convicted of threatening communications or harassing communications even if the actual word "rape" never left your mouth or appeared in the text messages. It'll be looked at as a totality of what was communicated.asked her if we could come over and "**** her

