My question involves criminal law for the state of:
New york, ny
I was shopping last night at anthropologie and was holding a lot of sweaters and dresses to try on, and I also grabbed an earrings ( retail value $28). Since the earrings always stuck with the sweaters, I decided to temporarily hold it in my pocket and reminded myself to pay for it when I checked out.
But during the time I checked out, I did some returns, price adjustment, and paid for the items I wanted. Also I asked the associates to locate other 2 items I wanted but can't find my size.
it was a bit long process and i completely forgot about those earrings.
I was stopped at the door becuase of beeping and when they found the earrings and when they asked simply did I forgot to pay? I went completely blank and denied.
then I was detained in the office. they told me I will receive the civial demanding letter and will be banned from that store for 3 years.
I wasn't asked to sign any letters and there is not a pic taken.
I called them back to explain later when I gathered myself later but they said the incident is now out of their hand.
I am very very regretful for what I behave, i guess i was just freaked out.
I have always been in good standing and never have anything like this happened to me before.
What should I do?
1.SHould I go back and explain to the store manager in person to waive it?
or should I ask to sign the paper works?
2.I learned about the cival demands request from the letter they gave me the last night stating i will receive that civial demand letter from them and asked me to follow that. I learned that in state of new york, i will have to pay for i) the item attempted if not recovered (in my case, it was recovered).2. no greater than 5 times of the retail value of the larceny or 75 dollars.
Does it mean i will have to pay for 140 total of the cd?
3. I am in process of applying for new jobs, nothing related to retails, will that affect my futher job?
thank you very very much for any advice, I am scared to death and wouldn't tell my husband what happened? I am now 27 years old.


