My question involves a child custody case from the State of: Missouri
My son's biological father was not in his life until he was eight by his own choice. My husband has been his father figure since he was 5mo and we have been married for 15 years with two younger sons. We have never been to court or had any custody set. He has never paid child support and I have never requested it until now. Since he was eight he has not made a big effort to spend time with him or keep in contact. My son is now 16 1/2 years old and my husabnd, son and I decided to file for child support so that he can afford to save for college, pay for his insurance, have some spending money & etc. As soon as I filed and he was notified he became upset. Now that the State of Missouri has found him to be responsible for $608.00 a month he is screaming lawyer & custody unless I agree to his terms. I have never stoped him from spending time with my son nor do I want to. But I am wondering what my rights are? Should I nogotiate with him or go straight to a lawyer. I do not and cannot afford a drugout expensive court process but am willing to do whatever I need to in the best interest of my son. Please help!![]()

