recently I wrote about how my ex never returned my daughter after his parenting time on New Years. Now I have her back, thanks to the court. However I have a question:
My ex is a reserve police officer. SHould I let the department where he works know about what he has done? I don't think he should be a police officer, and it's also obvious he uses his position to access my personal records - for instance, he had detailed police reports of a time when I was raped - how would he get this? I've never told him about it. He also had an old PPO I had against an ex - really old, which has been long terminated.
Is it illegal for him to use his police pass to access my records for our personal matters?
Also, his brother is his employer, and has always paid for his legal support regarding our daughter - his brother has some kind of interest in this which I am unaware. However, after the kidnapping and being shot down for custody (again) my ex will never have a leg to stand on in the future. Anwyay, his bro has not been properly paying me child support - for instance, when he kidnapped my daughter, he just stopped paying me. He is now in arrears. How can I remedy this?

