I think she has already done a swell job of hanging herself. It's a matter of me being able to prove it.
As far as the counselor and all that goes, why is there no mention of me making these remarks to my children and "PAS" if it's SO real in the motion to enforce? Doesnt it seem like if I was trying to alienate him and they had any serious proof that they would try to enforce that? Instead of just bringing her along to validate their reasons for denying me access to the kids? ( I know this leaks over from the other post, sorry)

When you talked about me being able to prove that it is her and not me (or you) Wouldn't the same thing stand to reason with a bunch of emails that I have sent to her and my ex that I know will be used against me, but dont want to? What's good for the goose... ?