Here's your problem.
Can you prove that it's her, and not you (for example - or me!) who is making the posts in order to discredit her?
Also, she doesn't have to like your children. I have a feeling there's more to this so if you don't mind, I have a couple of questions
Which court order do you believe she's violation of? Is she specifically named in any court order relating to your children?
What fraud?
What's going on with the counselor?
Does SHE actually have custody with your ex?

