Hello , I reside in PA.
I have a support order and recently i lost my job. So i applied for UC benefits and I got denied. But the compnay did give me severance. now the mother has physical custody and she recieves the support i pay thru the system. But she still harrasses me to buy him stuff and bring it to her house. She never wants me to see him and i must admit i do barter the things he needs to see him(seems like the only way outside of court). so the question is...what can happen to her once they find out i have been buying him things for her house while shes collecting support. I do understand that i can buy him things when hes with me. but i am basically supporting him outside and thru the system.
so again...what can happen to her and what should i file....termination or support or reduction.

