I am a married, over 21 years of age, child of a US citizen (my mom lives in Alabama) and me, my husband and our son, all have valid visitors' visas at this time. I would like my mother to file an application for me for immigration. I live in Pakistan.
I have a few questions...
As far as I have researched this issue, I have come to understand that in my situation (being married) I cannot concurrently file I-485 with the I-130... is that correct?
Will the process of immigration be any faster if I ask my mother to file I-130 when I am in USA? How much faster?
If she files a petition for me, will the chances of me getting a renewal on my visitors' visa diminish because then I will be considered an "intending immigrant"?
My mother had applied for me when I was single and when she was a permanent resident. By the time that application got mature, i was already married and the immigration service asked me if there was any change in my status and then they canceled my application. Can that waiting time be used in my current situation?
My husband is in the process of buying a house in USA... can that have a positive effect on our application?
Thank you in advance.

