ok...so here's the problem... my passport and my ssn and all have my maiden name. Does everyone go through updating their passport, ID and all after they get married and before they file the I-130, I-485 etc?
I am planning to go out of the country in October and with us getting married in Feb, there isn't enough time for me to update all my docs. Can I just use my maiden name for now and then update my name later? which is the lesser of the two evils?

