lol Dogmatique,the answer is love,love can change a person life.am in love and i am trying to make my spouse happy in every possible way.so if i dnt want to be with my spouse i will not get married in the 1st place,so if i really dnt have plans of staying now but i do have b4 the end of the year runs out. i have to put things in place before relocating finally.hope that is a good enough answer for you my friend.hope to hear from you soon.