I appreciate all of the answers. First of all, we have never cussed, fussed or anything of this nature. I never speak ill of her in front of the children, even though we get 3 or 4 emails from this woman daily. The children are in therapy because the 6 year old little girl said on three different occasions that her mother has done inappropriate things to her. We went through DFCS and the little girl won't repeat the accusations. The children are scard to death of her. Even though I have her on tape talking about it, they said unless she told a person of authority that it didnt matter. Ever since DFCS has become involved she has really stepped up her hatred of me. She thinks the children are posessions. She loves to try to control our household and when she can't, she uses the children. For the last year and a half I have basically bit my tongue to try and be civil to this woman, for the children. But I am at the end of my rope. She is not GOD, why should I have to listen to her because she decrees it?? As long as I don't invade her personal space ( her property) she has no say so if I ride with my husband to take them home. We have no say if her raunchy boyfriend is there when we take the children home. She is mentally unstable enough to accuse him of anything she can think of if he goes alone, and she would have a witness, as her boyfriend is always there, and he is not above telling a lie. So another words, this is a MESS! We have talked to our attorney about going to court, but until the children say something, he says to wait.

