There is being right, and there is being happy. No, SHE cannot "get you" for trespassing on the public sidewalk. HOWEVER, she CAN call police and ask that a trespass warning be issued such that your return to the front of her residence COULD result in your arrest, AND, would give her excellent ammunition in court to get a restraining order against you - not only to back up the trespass warning, but even so far as to ask the court to BAR you from being around the children AT ALL since the children are supposedly the crux of the issue. The bottom line is that if you have been asked NOT to show up to pick up the children, trying to push your weight around has great potential to become weight around your own neck. You have little to no legal recognition in this situation, so the best advice is NOT to enter a pissing contest that you will not win.

