I don't want to lie to him. He has been threatening me not to sign the papers since we got married. It's always "If you wear that outfit, I won't sign the papers", "If you talk to that person again, I won't sign the papers" and now he says he will sign only if I go back to France in December. We got married, he should not use the immigration papers as a way to threaten me! I did not marry him for the papers! I am a student, I could perfectly have stayed in the US on a student visa!
But now we have been married since March and he still has not done what it takes to regularize my status here! He is using my situation against me to keep me under his control.
I agree that this is a marital issue but what am I supposed to do legally? Of course I am thinking about a divorce but thanks to him I am now illegal in this country and will face a 3 years ban. Not because I purposely overstayed here but because my husband has held the papers to be able to threaten me whenever he wants!

