My question involves criminal law for the state of: New York
I've heard that you can shorten probation by writing a letter asking for your probation to be shortened. This made me wonder if you can write a letter asking for a regulation to be removed.

My ex has been told to stop contacting me. I'm not exactly sure why, because she did nothing wrong to me. She said her mom call probation complaining about the two of us (our age difference....she is 4 years 1 month and 20 days older). We were already asked to stop seeing each other by our parents, but now her mother went and got the law involved and probation acted by saying that we can't even contact each other anymore until I'm 17.
I'm not 17 for 1 year 1 month and 24 days.

I'm wondering if my mom and I can write a letter to probation asking for them to allow us to contact each other. If this is possible, where would I start in doing so? And if this is not possible, what is possible besides waiting until I'm 17...if the regulation can't be completely removed, can it at least be shortened? All help is gladly appreciated. Thank you so much in advance!