I'm sorry you don't like that term gosh. I was just trying to sum up the question in one line instead of saying the parent that has no custody but pays child support. I'm pretty sure I referred to him as the father in the post. We get along I didn't mean it like sperm donor I think that's a lot worse. I put that on here to get my question answered not to be attacked.
Well that's if I move out of state and I'm not so I guess I'm fine.

