My question involves defamation in the state of: Ohio

I was falsely accused of a prostitution charge 7 yrs ago in a small town printing my name, pic in paper. Case was false and dismissed. Small town does not forget and they talk and add more to it. I am in counseling, taking meds to deal with my personal injuries. Noone forgets this type of damaged rep. I have major depression and anti social personality issues. Just this week 2 deputy sheriffs divulged arrest info to neighbor like it was yesterday. I have lost respect of my children, lost my own self esteem and personality, been shunned by society, lost my marriage, had to quit my job and cannot work . I stay at home and don't go to my local restaurants or stopres. I prefer to go where noone knows me. My atty in the case years ago divulged my personal info to her co worker who then in turn called me at home to proposition me. Course when I brought that up she talked to her co worker who "suppossedly" had a case like mine and wanted advice and he conveniently left all my info at his fishing cabin and his cell for his buddies to use so he says he didn't know he left that info there... After the sherriff incident i am ready to fight back and sick of this. Please help... is there anything I can do to get my name back in the way of a lawsuit.. don't tell me to move.. it's really not possible right now. This really hurts and upsets me and I don't even want to try to get a lawyer if nothing can be done.
I had a personal ad looking for a man who worked and not a loser, a little more to it but nothing like I was charged...
At the time my atty told me there was nothing I could do because the paper reported an arrest which did happen. Course they never reported the outcome and with such a sensitive subject I do not know why they would just stick it in there.
I have to repeatedly change my phone number and feel suicidal at times esp when it gets brough up over and over.
My ex husband is a jerk and wants to keep it up and tell people how bad I am... so if I can sue anyone.. who is libel? The paper... the arresting officer undercover? My ex or anyone who has run their mouth? or do i continue to hide and crawl under a rock?
This has changed my whole life and yes, i go to counseling but it's not helping right now