live in Michigan:brother is incarcerated. he got divorced in there. The mothere doesn't want the kids around me because of his ex-girlfriend.my niece just turned 17 years old. Can I get in trouble for taking her to see him?me & my mom was going to see him and we told her she could go. Her mom had told her that my mom & dad were the only ones to take her. But since she is 17, can she go?