My question involves a child custody case from the State of: Florida. I'm a single mom who due to the economy had to move in with my parents while I was still pregnant. I am listed as the primary custodial parent for my child and my ex is the non custodial parent with visitation, although he is not currently allowed to have our child at his home by court order due to unsafe conditions. It is my wish that if something should happen to me that my child remain in the home that he has known his entire life, he is now 4. Is it possible for me to state in my will or in some other way who should get custody of my child? His father is ordered to pay support, but he doesn't have a job and his parents pay for all his expenses. Can anyone help???