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    Default Me and My Wife's Boyfriend Was Charged for Simple Assault

    My question involves an injury that occurred in the state of: Pennsylvania

    Please take time to read my story. Please have patient English is not my first language so you will see some grammatical error. Put please don’t let that discourage you from reading my story. I NEED HELP AND LEGAL ADVICE PLEASE THANKS.

    I been having problem with my wife’s new boyfriend (Me and my wife are still marry but we have separate for 5years). There were two incidents that happen between me and my wife’s boyfriend.

    The incident was when I met my wife’s boyfriend and I introduced myself to him and willing to know him better because of my three girls that live with my wife. The second time I met him he threaten to beat me, because I did not want to sign the one page consent divorce paper that my wife want me to sign. In which I told me wife to send me all the divorce paper she filled so I can go through them before signing any paper.

    The second time I met him, it was in court, I took my wife to court for custody of my three girls. When the guy threaten me I went to report to a sheriff officer, but the office said she can’t do anything because she did not see anything, and my wife also denied that her boyfriend did not threaten me. Although after I left the sheriff office I went to tell my wife boyfriend that I will like him to stay away whenever I come to pick up my girls. When this was going on the sheriff offer saw me and told me to get on my sit.

    After the court meeting with my wife, I was walking to my car when my wife pulled her car over to the side, in which her boyfriend jumped out of the car and start walking towards me, cursing and treating me. I quickly get in my car to get away from him and he left.

    Few miles away from the courthouse, I was on the right lane going to the mall and I stopped for the traffic light. I saw my wife car pull up to my left lane and her boy friend came to my driver side window. He hit me on my face and spit on my face, in which some got in my mouth. My reaction was to spit out so that I don’t gulp down his spit. At this time my wife came to pull her boyfriend away from me, in which some of my spit got on her cloth.

    When the police came to the scene, I was in a shock and I could not say much than tell the police that my wife boyfriend hit and spit in my face. The office left me to hear my wife and her boyfriend side of the story. My wife told the officer that I was harassing her, following her, and I spit on her.

    When the officer came back to me, he gave me citation for harassing my wife, and he put my wife as the victim. The funniest thing is that the officer did not take my wife’s boyfriend information. When I called the officer, he told me he did not have my wife’s boyfriend information. On the same day when I went to see my younger daughter at her day care, My wife and her boyfriend came over to the day car in which my wife start to harass me to leave the daycare, and her boyfriend walked up to me and kicked me on my foot. The mistake I did was that I did not call the police. The women in charge of the daycare witness the incident, but she is my wife’s good friend.

    WHAT SHOULD I DO, FILL CHARGES ON MY OWN AGAINST MY WIFE’S BOYFRIEND? And how should I defend myself in court on this charge against me?



    The second incident was when I went to pick up my kids for holiday, I called my wife if he can leave her boyfriend at home since he live with my wife and my children. She told me I can not tell her what to do, because she can do what ever she wants. Before going to the pick-up spot I called 911 to ask for police escort, no officer was available, but one was assigned to call and check on me. When got the pick up spot my wife boyfriend jumped got of the car and start to curse me in the presence of my children. I quickly get my children and left the place.

    30minutes after I picked up the kids, my wife called me to harass me cursing me and told me that she will make me drop off the kids at 12Am night when am coming back to drop off the children, even though the custody agreement states that am to drop them back at 9 PM. After the first incident the guy had called me to harass me in which I recorded all the conversation on my mobile phone too.

    When I was going to back to drop off the kids at 12AM in the morning, I was so tired and I forget to call 911 again, because I live 4hours away from my wife and children. When I got to the drop off location, I pulled behind my wife’s car to help put the kids in her car’ because the kids were sleeping and I don’t want them to wake-up because they will all get emotion. But my wife told me not to get close to her car, and I pull back in which my oldest daughter woke up and start to cry. As I knee down to console my oldest daughter, I heard my wife’s boyfriend walked up to me and start to say that is “Is this pus*y ass nigger causing trouble.

    At this time my sister was there to witness anything that happens. I quickly stood up to confront him. I told him that he needs to get away, and he needs to know how to talk around my kids. He kept walking toward me and he attacked me. I pushed him away from me and my kids when I realize his intension. He walked up to me and kicked me in the back. I put him in a headlock and restrained him on the ground for about 45 second. My wife too walked up to me and starts to hit me in the back of my neck, because I was on top of her man. At this time, I was scared I felt I should get to safety zone. As I release his hand he grabbed a rock which weigh about 10-15 pounds and hit me on my right ear. I went back on top of him again to restrain him for another 50 second. While all this was going on my wife keep hitting me. When I can’t take the pain anymore I decided to getaway for the second time. As I try to get away my wife pulled my jacket and I lost balance and I fell to the ground. My wife boyfriend walked up to me again and kicked me on my face, In the presence of my children and he hit me with the same rock again which I blocked with my right hand. After the whole incident I realize that I had a deep laceration on my right ear, a swollen lip and a cut on my right hand. When the officer came to the scene he said he will not arrest anyone since he was not there to witness the incident. But the officer charges both of us for simple assault.

    I don’t know what to do now cause this man live with my children. My wife told me she will not let me speak or see the kids again. I don’t have money or time to take her to court or fight her in court. I don’t know how I will fight the simple assault charges that the officer charged me for. What kind of legal advice any anyone give me? Please I need HELPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP.

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    Default Re: Me and My Wife's Boyfriend Was Charged for Simple Assault

    If you're charged with committing crimes against your wife's boyfriend, you need to be working with your divorce lawyer and probably also a criminal defense lawyer in relation to the charges. Obviously you need to find a way to stop having contact with the boyfriend - perhaps have your divorce lawyer seek a court order that custody exchanges are to occur without his presence, and at a public location such as a police department.

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