Technically for the next 8 days he is my fiance. The wedding is fastly approaching. That is another of my concerns, our finances wil be fully entertwined in less than 2 weeks. We already have a joint vehicle, and a joint bank account, as well as a joint lease. I guess with the wedding less than 2 weeks away its easier to call him my husband.
The main problem with hiring a lawyer is that we just dont have any money. I am the only one working (he stays home with my two kids only one of those is his too.) I would take it from our wedding plans, but its just a minister and my parents back yard. No real costs to cut back.
My sons and I are both insured by the state of Missouri. He is not. The insurance available thru my job is too costly in comparison to my income. My oldest son is insured thru the state due to an absentee father. So technically, I am the one who provides insurance for one of his 2 dependants......the one who is also my dependant. Well the state does, but I do have copays for the insurance.