This is sad and no one knows what to do for the Father of the unborn child. I have this friend that got pregnant 14 1/2 weeks ago. She was never happy about the pregnancy. But, she told her Mother(Whom she is living with), sisters, friends and boyfriend that she was going to take it to full term. As time progressed she became depressed and broke it off with the boyfriend. She told him that she would give him full custody when it was born. So he told his parents to get ready for a grandchild. Everyone was sad about the break up especially the boyfriend, but exited about the baby. Even my friends Mom bought things for the baby. We were all expecting a new person in our lives.
The last thing my friend told her ex-boyfriend was that she would grant him all rights to the baby when it was born. He was ready to step up to the plate and take his role. He was starting to day dream about having a new baby. Then two weeks ago she set up an appointment to have the baby aborted. She only told her sister. Then her Mom found out and cried. I found out and asked the sister to please tell the boyfriend. No one would pick up the phone for his call. So he called me. I felt so badly for him that I had to tell him for the abortion is set for tomorrow June 6, 2009. He felt sickened when he looked up his rights. He has none.
What can he do? is there anyone that can answer this? He told me that he feels like his baby is going to be murdered. I never realised how badly a man may feel when his girlfriend is getting an abortion. If you can help please do. Give me some ideas so I may pass them on to him. Thanks