TG...If you have to swerve to avoid rear ending someone, that pretty much implies that you're following too closely. That, however, has little to do with the real problem.

I now, and I think others, suspect that you're some kind of a 'kook', considering the time and ridiculous effort you spend on this forum trying to substantiate foolish or meaningless points of contention....that accomplish no useful purpose.

I'm going to Europe in the morning and will be there for 3 weeks. I think you should either get a job or some professional help between now and then...or, both. Regardless of your situation, you have too much idle time on your hands and if you're young (as I suspect you are), it will be to your detriment not to do so.

Upon my return, I'll be interested in your progress. Talk to your family and friends...they can be very, very helpful. I mean that in a very sincere manner.