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    My children ages 9 and 11 no longer want to see their dad. We were never married and he left when I was pregnant with 9 yr old. He came back when 9 yr old was 4 yrs old. He was not happy with the $600/month child support( $15,000 in arrears) so we came to an agreement that he would help with taking the kids weekends and wednesdays ( I have no family support) and I would lower his support to $ 100/month for both kids.( which we only get about 4 or 5 times a year)
    It seems like he did not use this time to bond w the kids. My 11 yr old cries when she has to go to his house. My son stresses out also. Dad has never come to a concert, soccer game, conference, ect. He does not do anything or take them anywhere on his visitations.
    In addition to letting his newly 16 yr old step-son drive them around he leaves them home alone with no phone. When I bring this up with him through text messages ( he refuses to talk to me) he lies and denies eveything, then the kids are punished for telling me.
    How do I get the child custody visitation changed/ We do not have alot of money for an attorney? Is this the only way?

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    My children ages 9 and 11 no longer want to see their dad. We were never married and he left when I was pregnant with 9 yr old. He came back when 9 yr old was 4 yrs old. He was not happy with the $600/month child support( $15,000 in arrears) so we came to an agreement that he would help with taking the kids weekends and wednesdays ( I have no family support) and I would lower his support to $ 100/month for both kids.( which we only get about 4 or 5 times a year)
    It seems like he did not use this time to bond w the kids. My 11 yr old cries when she has to go to his house. My son stresses out also. Dad has never come to a concert, soccer game, conference, ect. He does not do anything or take them anywhere on his visitations.
    In addition to letting his newly 16 yr old step-son drive them around he leaves them home alone with no phone. When I bring this up with him through text messages ( he refuses to talk to me) he lies and denies eveything, then the kids are punished for telling me.
    How do I get the child custody visitation changed/ We do not have alot of money for an attorney? Is this the only way?
    First, you gather proof of the problems and reasons why the order should be modified. Then, you file for a modification of the order.

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