The age of consent in Alabama is 16. Getting anywhere near her could land you facing second degree rape charges - and you could be tried as an adult since you are 17 (meaning if convicted, you'll end up as the young meat on the block in jail or prison). That's in addition to other nasty long term problems like never getting college financial aid, having to register as a sex offender, not being able to be live in certain places or get certain jobs, etc. etc.

And, none of that would be any different even if mom LIKED you.

Mom will have the law on her side all the way on this one (including the possibility of OTHER things like restraining orders and criminal charges for contributing to the delinquency of a minor).