I have a 12 year old son, who doesn't want visitation (overnight) anymore. He is uncomfortable with the environment. At what age can this happen? My son has finally spoken to his father on what is bothering him, and his dad flushed it out and turned it on him. At which point, my son told me his wishes and I called his dad to tell him. He of course became indignant, and said that when he (the son) can respect his wishes and he calls to want to see him then fine.
Can I just stop this entirely?

