I was wondering what I need to do in my situation. My child is 24 and dying from lung cancer. The doctor had a conversation with me and asked my feelings on a ventilator and so forth. I expressed my feelings and doctor indicated that they would talk to my child. Well, child just begins to cry and does not voice feelings on topic. As a parent, do I have the right to make that decision? Also, since child is on SSDI.........do I need to do a will or anything else? Child does not own anything but stock; doesn't even own a car. State is Pa.