first of all , thank you for your time.
what i need to know is how do i make sure my son is able to live with his biological father whom i finally was able to locate after 15 yrs., our son is 16 now. i am not a bad mother, though i am only a mother and without a male figure in my sons life, he was in trouble alot......went to kid prison at 13 yrs old. , being a bullly, and welll attitude of my life sucks, my dad doesnt care, and so forth and more. none the less my son became victim to the system, unable to be a kid with alll the kid fun was manifested into hooking up with worse suches in the detentions and well more counseling and classes and always in juvi. spent christmas in juvi one year.
ok anywho, i contacted his father and explained to him he really needed to meet his son and mend some of the thoughts which i could not even ease with me being mom. father paid child support, state enforced for years. i never had support for my son revised, measly 180.00 a month. state often asked me to revise, i refused due to the hopes of his father contacting my son and geez i didnt want to go for his juglar . the point is my son is with his father in maryland, i have stopped recieving child support , i notified child support that child is with father, i stopped his state medical. his father has been acting as if i am trying to fight him from being able to care for our son, i even tried communicating with the stepmom, since she supposedly has issues of jealousy, welll they kept speaking to me in terms which i should have used apparently the past 15 years. i am confused. my son has my permission to be there. his father says he needs some documentation that will allow him to what i dont know what else he would need from me, so he would be authorized in parenting our son.
hope i was not too confusing , just confused myself .
peace and harmony with and amongst all.

