I am 14 years old and I live with my mom. My father I get to see almost every weekend lives near atlanta.when i'm with my father I feel safe and protected but i don't feel the same with my mother. I feel as if i would be better off living with my father but i don't know the legal way of doing this . All I really want is to feel safety and love all the time :My parents were not married and there was never a custody or visitation order established through the courts.