My question involves defamation in the state of: NJ/CO
I live in NJ and a man I was with lives in CO. We were in a relationship for over a year and used to IM and use a web cam while we were not together. He lives in CO now and I found out through some pictures he sent He recorded my uploaded stream while viewing my web cam. We are not together and I am afraid he might post or e:mail either the recorded video's or stills from the video's. Some of these I am in different states of undress so naturally I am worried where these might end up [ oh god ] I was a teacher in a catholic school part time and a den mother with the scouts and I know he has all the e:mails from many of those people as I would fwd him some of the mail's at times. My question is ,is there consent laws with web cams? Is there nothing I can do if for some reason these video's get posted or sent via e:mail to anyone?
Thank you very much for any help.
PS . I did do a search for " web cam" and did not find very much that was close.
 some of the time we were on a public cam site and other times it was private via yahoo.