I am not a lawyer but hearing someones opinion sounds like something you are looking for so here is what I think. I think you need to consider the views of gay marriage in the state of Kentucky. Living together with your partner may sway any decision. Be prepared for the views of the judge being involved in any decisions and hope for a female or gay judge who will not be partial to sexual orientation. Keep in mind that the court will likely rule upholding the state's position on gay marriage. If anything about your relationship borderline violates any state law rest assured it will have bearing on visitation. Georgia at least had laws on the books that would not benifit you in anyway!The advice to seek a lawyer is good advice because you really need to know the position of the state and how to maneuver in court based on that opinion. I wish you the best of luck and I am sorry you could not work it out that the three of you could all live together and be a happy trio! Your partner should always be your best friend after all marriage is a lifelong commitment!