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  1. #1
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    Default Re: 16 and Married Leaves Her Home and Child for Days. What Can Be Done

    Who are you in this scenario?

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    Default Re: 16 and Married Leaves Her Home and Child for Days. What Can Be Done

    well I'm the husband.. I know it was wrong. but i'm trying to make it right

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    Default Re: 16 and Married Leaves Her Home and Child for Days. What Can Be Done

    at the time. i felt like nothing was wrong with it. you could never look at her tell she
    under 18. i diagnosed with major depressive disorder. and would grave attention from who ever would give it to me. now that i been on medicine for a while i"m really starting to see how wrong this was. and i fel terrible for what i did. but in the end.. I'm the only one that really care about her. she comes back all the time. but after a couple of days she takes off again. i just dont understand how her mama could allow this, the police. and the state let us get married.

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    Default Re: 16 and Married Leaves Her Home and Child for Days. What Can Be Done

    It's hard to know what you're trying to achieve here. If grandma is taking care of the baby, because neither you nor mom want to shoulder that responsibility, then it can hardly be said that mom's abandoning the child - from what you have said, it appears to b your mutual choice to let grandma take care of the child.

    If your concern is that your wife floats in and out of the house, doing as she pleases, treating you more like a hotelier or a babysitter than as a spouse... well, she's sixteen, and I doubt that anybody who's dealt with teenagers is going to be surprised by that. Neither maternity nor marriage will transform a teenager into an adult. You may have been happy during the time you thought you were being a perfect husband, but it seems more than safe to infer that she was not.

    If she's not missing, there's no point in "reporting her missing". If the marriage isn't working out, there's always the option of divorce.

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    Default Re: Sixteen-Year-Old Mother Leaves Her Home and Child for Days. What Can Be Done

    You really need to read this yahoo's other post to get the full story.

    His teenage wife left him and he was then charged for going after another teen.

    This isn't quite as cut and dried as it sounds... and yes, that was sarcasm.

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    Default Re: 16 and Married Leaves Her Home and Child for Days. What Can Be Done

    Quote Quoting aaron
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    It's hard to know what you're trying to achieve here. If grandma is taking care of the baby, because neither you nor mom want to shoulder that responsibility, then it can hardly be said that mom's abandoning the child - from what you have said, it appears to b your mutual choice to let grandma take care of the child.

    If your concern is that your wife floats in and out of the house, doing as she pleases, treating you more like a hotelier or a babysitter than as a spouse... well, she's sixteen, and I doubt that anybody who's dealt with teenagers is going to be surprised by that. Neither maternity nor marriage will transform a teenager into an adult. You may have been happy during the time you thought you were being a perfect husband, but it seems more than safe to infer that she was not.

    If she's not missing, there's no point in "reporting her missing". If the marriage isn't working out, there's always the option of divorce.
    we going to get a divorce, all Im asking about here is. is she now free to do as she please? stay gone for days without telling anyone where she's at. and as far as our child goes. i wanted to keep him but i work away from home during the week.. only home on the weekend

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    Default Re: 16 and Married Leaves Her Home and Child for Days. What Can Be Done

    I know I done wrong.. I know that.. But if You can Just pretend this is the Girl Mother. and she want her daughter to stop roaming around town all weekend and want her to move back home. since she is no longer with her husband. what can she do to get her daughter back home before she get hurt out there?

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    Default Re: 16 and Married Leaves Her Home and Child for Days. What Can Be Done

    You can report her missing if the authorities will even take a report.

    Once she married, she became an adult in the eyes of the law and emancipated from her parents. You didn't marry an adult, but a teenager, and now you have to deal with her teenage behavior. Your choice is to get a divorce and custody of the child.

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