Thank you for the advice!

No, she doesn't have this 2 year foreign residence on her J1 as far as I know - so I guess that's better!

Basicly, if I apply for a residence in the beginning of May how long would it approximately take for me to become American, so that after that we can marry right away! Or we can do it after I sant the application (but before I actualy got the resedence??)... it's a little tricky!
I'm asking because we need to plan a wedding... family and so on.. lots of things!

Thank you so much
Really appreciate!

Best regards