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1parent
thats not a CS issue. if its legally harrassment, then he needs to motion for an RO.
Well, the good father, once had a relationship with the bad mother so she couldnt and cant be all that bad.
*Well when you first state dating someone they call it the "Honeymoon stage" when 3 months into that she tells you she's pregnant (even though 2 forms of protection were supposidely being used...ooppss she must of missed one of her pills or didn't work) well guess didn't give you time to really know what kind of person each other might be...as bad as it sounds it is what it is..and lets not act like everyone waits more than 3 months into a relationship before they start to have sex (not everyone practices the prim and proper way to live life).*
If he cares enough, he can educate himself enough to not need a lawyer
*You can educate yourself all you want...when you stand before a judge making a ruling who are you to call the judge out and tell him that's not how it's going to work...because you printed off this this or that via the internet*
When your child is born, his child support will not be lowered. And yes, mom has a right to file for a CS review periodically. The drama will not be an issue, only the numbers, his and her salaries among other things. Now is not the time complain as you were very aware of your fiance's financial obligations to his kids when you met him.
*Well his financial obligation continues to go up every year even though the child has gone from full time daycare to fulltime school, so as for being aware you can have an idea but never would you expect it to continue to go up when the child actual expenses that CS cover are show that it should be lowered*
That was at the courts discretion. What is the status of his case now? It is hard to prove PAS which is why some courts dont give it much attention without hard evidence.
Some parents feel if they are going to get dragged back into court, they may as well get their requests heard at the same time. How long had it been since the last CS review and modification. If its been more than years, then she is entitled to a review.
Unfortunately with difficult parents, you have to get everything in a court order to get them to comply.
God forbid she took him to court saying he didn’t make any other effort besides what the court assigned him for his days/times they’d say he was a worthless father and that it’s harder on her and she needs more money to compensate…it’s sad, and we could really use some good advice (even if someone knows of an attorney or program that works with people when they can’t come out of pocket with that big retainer attorney fee).