the divorce was supposed to cordial she told me "you dont need a lawyer mine will take care of everything" and i listened well i didnt find out untill after i sighned the decree that she was cheating for over 2 years and that her lawyer was trying to and did stick me up the wazoo but i didnt fight i was in a depression and for the sake of my children thats all i care (ed) about at the time. but now if i dont get help i will never see my children i am to the point of desperartion i work 16-20hrs a day banks wont help i tried they say my debt to income is to low i work for cash on my second job i pay my support its taken out every week. i know i was stupid she fudged me good i wish i wouldnt of loved her i just want to know why doesnt her lawyer do what she was paid to do? why do i have to keep sufferig for something i didnt want do anything to deserve why?