Also- custody and support are two completely different orders. The custody happens where the custodial parent resides (PA) and the child support where the non custodial lives (NC)- so that shouldn't have anything to do with his decision. The NC judge can only rule on support. Meanwhile there is an open contempt of court case in PA agianst the father- whom harrasses her, won't supply his address, and on a recent visitaion he had a 14 year old boy supervising the 3 children (all under 10) in a city park! Meanwhile he is sleeping at home! Hopefully that is some more background on this. So, really- what can this judge do if she doesn't get another job- lower the child support? He can't rule on custody.