Ok thanks so far for your advice..I have PLENTY of mail and my paycheck stubs dating back that far have that address on them. Vehicle registration etc. As far as taking stuff to my employer he can try but I have plenty on him as well ie drugs..etc. It looks as though I'm just gonna have to take him to court. I will give him one last chance to get my stuff back by asking a sherrif to accompany me over there and if that Dosent work the I'll have to take him to court..ugh this is going to be time consumming I'm sure. I'm in upper level management and it is going to be difficult. Again with the coworker he'd have to PROVE that I was seeing her wouldn't he. I mean she came over to house many times and was there with HIM..

