there is this girl who was after my husband for 3,4 years for money and other means..i have seen plenty of emails from her trying to turn him towards him though he confessed to her that he is married and not interested in any relation..she used to tell stories about her poverty and how she is taking the burden her entire family..and tried to cry with him and try to shoulder on him..she used to say if not him, she would not have lived on this earth blah blah..i was so angry at him initially after this entire story was broken out..but after reading through all the emails (he has thousands of emails..for gods sake he kept them all) which i have gone through, even i felt sorry for my husband..he was gone through emotional blackmailing in entire period..every time he goes back on the relation, she would blackmail him of taking suicide or sort of..he tried to bail out her by sending money to her and also brought her to USA with his own expenses...she would always say, as soon as she comes to USA, she would repay his generosity, and pay his loans..there are emails to support her assurances..she used to say, whatever salary she will get in USA, she gives away all the salary to him barring her expenses..several times she maintained that he is the only person in her heart and she will never marry any one in her entire life..etc..
he gave her lot of money, he has proofs for some, doesn't have proofs for some..as soon as she came to USA, she accepted an arranged marriage and decided to leave him..by that time he has spent more than 30k for her hoping that she will repay that some day..when she accepted her marriage with some one and decided to leave him for good, he cried with her and asked her how can he pay off the loans that he made for her and confronted her why she gave false promises and assurances..instead of offering anything, all that she did is to provoke him to have a physical relation with her..it seems in that emotional period he ended up having relation with her..whenever he asked for the money, it seems she tried to console him by offering physical relationship..and continued taking help from him..afraid that if he breaks the relationship, she will never pay back, he continued relationship and continued paying more money for her needs..i figured out it from his diary (that is when i came to know about the relation first) that fear of losing money made him to continue to be in touch with her..and i saw her emails wrote to my husband where she said, even though she is married, she is still emotionally involved with my husband only and she loves only one person that is my husband blah..blah..
after i came to know about this relation and we had biggest fight in our married life..i didn't know at that time that, this lady is ruing us financially too..after he explained all this and showed the proofs i am kind of convinced about the entire issue and forgave him for the sake of my kids..my only condition in our rapprochement is to bring her to the justice...
long story short..once she got job with the help of my husband..she brought her husband next month..and changed her phone number..changed her email ids and stopped any communication with my husband..
now my husband is in worst health condition due to this..and not able to perform his duties fully at his job..got into lots mental disturbance..and in a bankrupt situation..all our credit cards APRs went to the max..credit score went to lowest..not able to pay the monthly bills..in the worst situation in every way..
he has all the email communications, intimate pics, videos, voice recordings and so..for gods sake, he has these evidences at least...he tried to reach her husband to tell him and explain him about their entire relationship but she cut him off too..obviously, she don't want her husband to know about her previous relationship..and maintaining as if she was virgin when she married him. If ever her husband knows about this relationship, he will definitely desert her..that is how the customs of the culture where she came from..I want her husband to know about this relationship or I want her to pay off the entire money to us..
she is the one who ruined my and my kids future..off course my husband too..but as i said i more convinced and understood his dilemma for all this period..and i forgive him now for the sake of my kids..i want to take a legal action against her..and also i want her husband to know and understand about this relation fully..but i want to proceed through only the legal proceedings..how would i do..and how can i get free legal help in my situation..
I live in Kansas State..
please advise..i am so desperate..kindly help me..

