Her whole thing was she DIDNT want me to go to jail but I had to due to the 12 hour cooldown
Not her call

A DV offender with a DV record. . . probably damned few
options other than confinement

Now when I go to court, she doesnt want me to go to jail
As you probably know, what she wants and what the DA wants
can be an entirely different matter

Your attorney can see what alternatives to sentancing the
DA has to offer

I wouldn't get my hopes up as this being your second time