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jlporcher
My question involves child support in the State of: Pennsylvania
I have 2 children to my ex fiance`. Ages 4 and 7 months. We just left our umptenth child support hearing yesterday regarding increasing my support. Good news is it didnt get increased even though Im working a new job it got decreased. After leaving the meeting and having things squared away my ex calls me and tells me that she would rather have me pay her out of pocket rather than go through the system because of her own reasons. I find it relieving on my end just because of the whole frustrations I have with domestic relations here in PA. Im a good father whos always worked and always taken care of my kids but I was taken to domestics just for a "guarantee" that Ill continue to provide for my kids. Which is understandable and I see where shes coming from. But again like I said Im tired of all the frustrations that I have with domestics because they treat me and talk to me as if Im one of those dead beat dads.
Anyways, my ex told me that if I agree to pay her every other week out of pocket then she would drop the support order all together.
My questions are will she be able to terminate the order as a whole? What will happen to my arrears? and what would I need to do on my end as far as the order being terminated.