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    Default Mother in Law Filed False Stalking Order

    My question involves restraining orders in the State of: North Carolina
    My husband left me around a month ago, and has told everyone that i continually call him, however he is the one calling me, coming to the house and taking things, telling my son he was suppossed to be an abortion, and telling one of my daughters she is a crack baby, ( he is abusing alcohol 1/2 gallon every two days and our dr thinks he may be bi-polar) anyway i was at the court house taking out a temporary restraing order on him when he called me 4 times in the courthouse and said if i would give him our new riding lawn mower along with the 40+ guns he already took, the new vehicle we have leaving me the one with bad brakes,tires etc he wanted to sign a seperation agreement so he could "have a life" i believed he was going to do this so i didnt file the restraining order, however the gentleman at the courthouse told me to keep the papers just in case and i am glad i did, My mother in law lives right above me and has always been a little crazy, my husband and i used to talk about it alot she has broke everything in her house, slashed her furniture up, changed her phone number several times in a week being paranoid, anyway. My husband decides not to sign the sep agreement and took even more things and called half the night telling me he can come in the house anytime he wants he can even sleep with me blah blah blah,, so i go to see a lawyer and as i am leaving her office i see my mother in laws car at the courthouse and my heart stops wondering what crazy thing she is going to do to me as she has threatened me she will pay people to say things about me etc... and she has the money to do it, I go back to my lawyer and she calls the courthouse and finds out my husband and his mother are both taking restraining orders out on me and hubby is asking for temp custody, so i go to the courthouse crying at the thought of losing my children for 10 days to either of them, and luckily they take my paperwork that i had already filled out and because she and my hubby show out a little in the lobby while waiting to see the judge the assistant takes me back first and i get the exparte order for my children, However my hubby and his mother take a restraing order out on me that is served later that night on me, his was basic stuff and i didnt care as i wanted him to leave me alone and i have no intentions on bothering him, but hers was the biggest bunch of lies i have ever heard, i thought she would be included on his, but she got a stalking and nonconsentual sexual something order on me, ( i got sick at the two words in the same sentance her and sex) anyway she accused me of following her everywhere she goes, that i held her up against a wall and choked her a few years back?? (she was in florida for 9 years until the last year and a half) she states that i killed my grandmother and she has proof, (my grandmother died at my home) my brother, mother,friend and myself were the only ones there she was on hospice, I wasnt even in the room when she died, She screamed this out in the hall of the courtroom, I work in a nursing home in a small town and the last thing i need after 13 years there is for her having people scared of me working there. and then she states i went online and stole her identity and wrote a letter using her name giving me permission to be added so i could run up charge cards... I have used her cards for years now, but only when she hands them to either me or my husband to get something for her,My husband has two cards from her and he is an authorized user one i have never used the other is a department store card and i have ordered items online on that account and have been paying the bill for almost two years plus she had me set up her verizon account, ebay and paypal and everything ever ordered on there was sent to her and for her, and i have paid her bills for several years now on those cards too and have the bank statements and checks to prove it. Do you think i have anything to worry about, I know she cant prove any of this because i havent done anything plus my schedule is so busy i wouldnt have time to stalk her if i actually wanted to... but i feel like she is going above and beyond on slander and falsly accusing me of things the whole temp order states over and over please keep her away from me for i am scared i am 60 years old, a widow with multiple med problems and on oxygen and i fear for my life.... I feel like i am in the middle of some daytime soap opera , is there anything i can do about all these false accusations? Thanks sorry this is so long but everything involving her is long, you would think it was us getting seperated instead of my husband and myself....

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    Default Re: Mother in Law Filed False Stalking Order

    For starters...paragraphs are our friends! It just makes it difficult for the responder to follow.
    If your soon to be ex violates the order, take him back to court. Get your own order of protection from the crazy mother in law. Get a good divorce lawyer and keep GREAT records of the harrassment.

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    Default Re: Mother in Law Filed False Stalking Order

    Sorry about the paragraph thing, if you notice i posted at 2am , and i guess when i started writing about it, i didnt even think good grammer.

    I go to court thursday for my restraining order against my husband, and for them to plead their case for a restraining order against me, my lawyer told me the judge hasnt even signed either one of their restraining orders, I guess i am just worried and confused how she can say all these things about me when there is no possible way to prove it as i didnt do any of it. She is very manipulative and has alot of money, and all i have to live on is my job.

    I cant believe he would allow her to say these things, if he truly cares about his children, i know he doesnt really want custody of them, as it would put a dent in his partying, drinking, and he would actually have to provide for them.
    But i guess i shouldnt be shocked as we have been together for 18 years and i didnt see the whole seperation/divorce thing coming either.

    Thanks for your time and advice, I guess i will just have to see what happens and hope for the best. It doesnt seem to matter anyway.

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    Default Re: Mother in Law Filed False Stalking Order

    Well today is my second childs 13th birthday, and grandma gave her a card with some money in it and lots of comments like "I love you so much I guess i'll never get to see you again, thanks to mama's lies, but baby you mean the world to me", and" your mother pushed your daddy away and pushed me away, but she cant push away our love of you for you." She has a restraining order on me, I havent even spoke to the woman in over two weeks that is a week before she got the restraining order and that was the first time in a month that i talked to her, I didnt hardly talk to her before the seperation. How can she keep sending my kids stuff like this? Can I do anything about it, now my daughter is so upset, She has literally ruined my daughters birthday with this crap....

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