My question involves divorce in the State of: Ohio
I've been married 12 years. Ten years ago, I took a job that only gets me home at most every other weekend. To make a long story short, shortly thereafter, my wife stopped having relations with me. She will not sleep in the same room with me when I come home. This has been going on the entire ten years I've been at this job. No affection whatsoever. When I come home, when bed-time rolls around she gathers up her pillow and blankets and sleeps in her grand-daughter's room. My response was I just stopped coming home. These days I come home every other month, instead of every other week. When I come home, she is verbally abusive. My house is filled with step-children and step-grandchildren. At this point, I'm supporting over half a dozen people,two grandchildren she has custody of, and I haven't been laid since Bill Clinton was president. When I'm out on the road, I never hear from my wife. Ever. She doesn't call to see how I'm doing. About the only time I hear from her is if I have a slow week and she'll call to complain about the paycheck.
Needless to say, I want out. I make about $40,000 a year. She has major health problems that prevent her from working. She could draw SSI, but she won't apply for it. I'm worried about spousal support. I have no idea how much they will make me give her. I also bought her a house, which her children have basically destroyed, holes in the wall, bashed in doors, etc; and I'm probably upside down on the financing. I owe $80,000 on it, it's worth about $60,000 the way it sits now.
Will the judge have pity on me or make me pay? What are my chances of a clean get-away regarding spousal support? I feel like I've bent over backwards trying to make things work for this lady, she just doesn't care.

