I admitted to an affair after suffering enough in a mentally torturous marriage. We both filed for divorce, and under intimidation I gave in to giving him full custody of our 2-year-old son. We reside in Texas, and during the 60-day reconciliation period, we decided to try to work it out, and cancelled the divorce. We took a marriage class through the church and renewed our vows. Now, just a month after renewing our vows, he is threatening divorce again. Since cancelling our divorce, I have been committed to being a perfect wife and mother. Can he bring up old baggage to use against me for custody? Will the past affair hurt me even though I've changed and been faithful and true? I hold a very good job, I don't party, I am very responsible. I provide a very loving environment for my son.

