
Quoting
ashman165
Though I can't speak for kist, I think what he's saying is that when you say you're a stay at home mom, the court will hear: I'm fully capable of getting a job to satisfy the financial obligations I signed a contract to meet. I just don't want to because I have children. They're my excuse for intentionally choosing not to meet the provisions of a contract that I as an adult said I would, and the CC company operating in good faith extended to me a line of credit I now choose not to pay. And even knowing that my husband's income has been severely decreased, I still choose to do nothing about it.
Anyway, I think that's what he's saying. If I were a judge, I'd hear something similar to that when the reason given for not paying your bills is because you don't want to work.
Also, he's not likening it to a crack addict. He's just saying that for whatever the reasons, you choose not to meet your financial obligations.
Oftentimes, the collection agency will offer you a reduced amount to pay to satisfy the debt. Be careful about that though because if the amount they cut off of it falls within a statutory amount, you'll have to pay taxes on the part they're forgiving because it counts as income.